Install a 9mm ejector and tried it again. Ammo was Federal bulk. Did not have to push the slide closed but still wouldn't extract. Loaded up 5 mini mags and it worked perfectly. Reinstalled 45 GAP ejector and got 4/5 to extract and 2 to fully cycle. Looks like it must be the 45 GAP ejector.
Also, the AA kit only states that it is for G19, 23, 25, and 32. This must be why.