sitting in a bar tonight having a good time when i heard probably the best advice i've ever heard...
"women change like the wind. you can either be a sailor or a kite flyer. you either use them to get where you want to go, or you can let them anchor you in place and just have fun."
and that **** came from a woman. granted, she was an 60 year old lesbian, but it makes a lot of sense. lol
the brighter your light the darker your shadow.