Lone_Wolfe good to see you on here. At least we know you are still kicking. Nothing wrong with taking time for yourself and to do the best that you can.
Just remember that we all care about you very much. I'm sure that there isn't a day that goes by that most of us don't think about you.
I'm a little stuck with a situation. A little advice would be helpful when you're up to it.
So what's going on? How's the swelling? Been back to get the girls even...etc.? Incisions healing ok w/o complications?