Too much ado about nothing, I think. I've used a bunch of bullets for .357 Sig and 9x25. From all the Barnes offerings in .355", 80 gr. to 125 gr. (125's are loooong at .722", and specified for .357 Sig), to 147 gr. Silvertip bullets. No problems at any time with either, loaded to SAAMI spec. OAL.
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