Reporting Back as promised
Settled on the loop style charging handle called "Brass Stacker" from TGR in North Carolina. Excellent choice, wife can now rack the slide of her Glock 26 easily. Loop grips the last 3 serrations on the slide, held tight by a set screw.
Faucet handle types forced asymmetric pull and made holstering difficult. Best stocking stuffer since the MePros. Of course now she wants a Crimson Trace. Some things never change.