I was looking at a presentation about women and big guns.
Their advice was to "Not fight the recoil", go with it and reset the sights. Men try to stop the recoil through strength. Not necessary.
I know nothing more to help women except, confidence counts more than anything.
"Peace is that brief, glorious moment in history when everybody stands around reloading". Anonymous
Earp: Not everyone who knows you hates you.
DOC: I know it ain't always easy bein' my friend....but I'll BE THERE when you need me.