Have you thought about having your grip area refinished with stippling? You can do it yourself with a fine tipped soldering iron or you can send it to Bowie Tactical or Coldbore Customs or any number of other shops.
I don't have experience with either of the slide refinishing items you mentioned but I would expect that the Nickel Boron work would last longer than Duracoat.
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