It's my belief women think they are 'helping' their man when they try to organize his life.
And it simply doesn't work. Women think differently then men, and visa-versa. Our version of being organized (among other things) and there's differ dramatically.
You need to establish some territory of your own...when it comes to stuff like this 'they' are the enemy.
Every woman on this board is probably going to raise hell with me for this...but women's attempt to 'help' are sometimes the worst things they can do for the males in their lives.
We need some space, and peace, of our own.
Quis custodiet ipsos custodes? - Juvenal