Join the club...this happens to me all the time. My wife thinks (or says) that I'm absent-minded. Yet I don't have this problem at work or in areas she doesn't go, like my Den.
Consider making at least one area of the house 'your area'. Call it man-cave, Den...whatever. It should be an area that you can call your own. Do your stuff there and you'll know at least where those things are.
“A dying culture invariably exhibits personal rudeness. Bad manners. Lack of consideration for others in minor matters. A loss of politeness, of gentle manners, is more significant than is a riot...”― Robert A. Heinlein