AA and CG, thanks for your input. It seems the approach I suggested to my wife, got her off go, but was incomplete. We need some time to digest your recommendations. For me, appreciation of the complexity involved in becoming "one with the gun", is appealing. The amount of internet instruction I just received will take "unpacking". After some "dry" time and range time, I will get back to you on how we are doing.
Yes, I agree GT can be contentious and I have certainly been in the "sights" of some for having an opinion. However, newbies--despite years of shooting--don't know what they don't know.
You guys who take the time to clarify and instruct elevate the status of GT and will keep me checking the site.
P.S. Gemini thought it would cost $175.00 to do the trigger work. After your comments, I will pass for now.